Why must we first believe we are worthy of love in order to truly love others?

We all know the saying "You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup!"

Believing You Are Worthy of Love.  

“You shall love your neighbour as yourself.” - Mark 12:31 We hear it all the time, love your neighbour, be kind to others, give selflessly. But what if the real challenge isn’t loving others, but believing we are worthy of love ourselves? How often do we dismiss compliments, put ourselves last, or feel unworthy of kindness? If we don’t truly believe we are deserving of love, how can we fully give it to those around us?

The Foundation of Love: Self-Worth.

Love is not just about giving, it’s about receiving too. When we accept love, care, and kindness into our own lives, we become more capable of sharing it with others. But too often, we carry wounds from the past, rejections, disappointments, self-doubt, that make us question whether we are lovable. If we don’t address these inner struggles, our ability to love others is limited. We may give out of obligation, insecurity, or fear of being alone rather than from a place of 'true abundance and self-worth'.

Emotional Intelligence and Love

Emotional intelligence (EQ) helps us break free from the mindset of unworthiness. It teaches us to:

Recognise and challenge negative self-beliefs.

Accept love and kindness without guilt or resistance.

Set healthy boundaries that protect our emotional well-being.

When we cultivate 'self-awareness and self-compassion', we transform our relationships. Instead of seeking validation, we love freely - because we are already fulfilled within.

Love as a Reflection

The way we love ourselves sets the tone for how we love others. If we are critical, neglectful, or harsh toward ourselves, that energy will inevitably spill over into our relationships. But when we practice self-love - through grace, patience, and kindness - we create deeper, more authentic connections.

What About You?

Do you believe you are truly worthy of love?

How do you speak to yourself when no one is listening?

What small step can you take today to receive love as easily as you give it?

💛 Love starts within. When you embrace your worth, you create space for deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Are you ready to take that step? Let’s grow together.